90 Day Fiancé‘s Usman “Sojaboy” Umar earned the nickname “Yahoo Boy” from his ex, Lisa “Babygirl” Hamme, and it seems like the nickname still fits. Sojaboy first appeared in the 90DF franchise as Lisa’s fiance in 90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days season 4. He later appeared on 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? season 7, partnered with fellow cast member Kim Menzies. Unfortunately, neither explosive relationship panned out for Sojaboy.
During his time on the show, Sojaboy was known for his sense of humor and superstar personality. He had a burgeoning music and film career in Nigeria. Sojaboy had disastrous relationships with Kim and Lisa on 90 Day Fiancé, but the relationship with Lisa was notably worse. Since his appearances on the show, his music and film careers appear to be booming, although that could be Sojaboy promoting himself. Regardless, he’s earned a reputation as a player, and various recent actions show his true colors.
10 90DF’s Sojaboy Alluded To Overlap Between Exes Zara & Kim
Sojaboy was caught in a sticky conversation on camera after 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, when he admitted that he wanted to make sure he was over his ex, Zara, before committing to Kim. After Kim left Tanzania, where the pair had been vacationing, Sojaboy FaceTimed his ex. He admitted, “even though I didn’t meet Zara in person, I love that lady so much.” Shortly after, Sojaboy and Kim were officially together.
9 90DF’s Sojaboy Released Single “Zara” After He Was Dating Kim
Even though he and Zara had broken up, Sojaboy released a song and music video that were clearly inspired by his ex-girlfriend. He dropped the tune after he and Kim had started dating. The song features lyrics such as, “you gat me twisted/girl your love don kill me,” and, “I’ve been wanting your love.” Despite their breakup and new relationship, Sojaboy was not over his ex, and wanted her attention.
8 90 Day Fiancé Sojaboy Announced He Was Single On Instagram
In a hilarious post, Sojaboy announced after his split from Kim that he was, “single but not searching and not ready to mingle lol,” followed by a “crying laughing” emoji. He smiled over audio that repeated a tune with the words, “I’m single.” Reactions were mixed in the comments, with one fan noting, “He just wants to get on 90 days again.” Another said, “Any man is ready to mingle when the right lady comes along.“
7 90DF’s Sojaboy’s “Friends With Benefits” Relationship With Kim
After their breakup, Sojaboy and Kim seemed open to a “friends with benefits” situation, a classic player move. Despite his pattern of dating older women, Sojaboy’s family continues to disapprove of his choices, and Kim’s son Jamal also disapproves of their situation. Kim had ample support after she broke things off with Sojaboy, but given his charm, it’s unsurprising that it’s been difficult to cut off contact entirely.
6 90DF’s Sojaboy Flirted With Ex Right After He Announced He Was Single
After his breakup with Kim, Sojaboy wasted no time announcing his single status. Additionally, just after dropping his “I’m single” Instagram post, Sojaboy commented on his ex-girlfriend Zara’s latest Instagram photo. The Instagram account 90daythemelanatedway was the first to notice Sojaboy’s comments. The post was captioned, “Remember the other day, Usman did that musical PSA and said he was single and not ready to mingle!? Ummm… what’s happening in Zara’s comment section???” Although the comment was made in Hausa, Zara later explained that he was asking how her family was doing.
5 90DF’s Sojaboy’s Yahoo Boy Series
After Sojaboy was infamously called a. “yahoo boy” by ex-wife Lisa Hamme, his second 90 Day Fiancé partner revealed before their breakup that Kim supported Sojaboy’s film project, which used the term. He (not ironically) appeared in an online web series titled Yahoo Boy in January 2023, around the time he and Kim cut ties. Sojaboy leaning into the stereotype Lisa assigned showcases his sense of humor, and pride in his player reputation.
4 90DF’s Sojaboy’s Music Videos Feature Him Flirting
Like many musicians, Sojaboy uses his standing as a relatively successful singer to get closer to attractive women. In a recent TikTok, Sojaboy promoted a new song, “Nishadi,” that featured him flirting with beautiful women. His desire to surround himself with gorgeous ladies is yet another indication of a player, and it’s a trait that Sojaboy seems proud of.
3 90DF’s Sojaboy Might Be Back With Kim, But Not Publicly
Despite their breakup and his excitement over being single, there are signs that Sojaboy wants Kim back. The separation occurred on Kim’s terms, and Sojaboy immediately took to Instagram to announce his newly single status. However, shortly after, he tried to make Kim jealous by claiming he was in love again on his Instagram page. This was later deleted when Kim posted her own Instagram story. In typical player fashion, the “benefits” with Kim may be happening behind the scenes.
2 90DF’s Sojaboy Likes To Show Off His Wealth
Like any good player, Sojaboy is always ready to flex with a new car or nice shoes. He’s proud of the wealth he’s accumulated through his music career and, potentially, his connections to American women. His feed is consistently filled with photos of his fancy clothes, cars, and accessories, contributing to his player status.
1 90DF’s Sojaboy Might Have a New American Girlfriend
Perhaps most importantly, according to In Touch Weekly, Sojaboy might have a new girlfriend. The woman in question is American bridal fashion designer Kiera Elise Ogden. Although nothing has been confirmed, Sojaboy may be filming a new season of 90 Day Fiance with his new girlfriend, Kiera. Since his breakup with Kim and flirtation with Zara happened recently, this possible development solidifies his player status.
Sojaboy made quite a name for himself on 90 Day Fiancé, but it’s possible his antics aren’t over yet. Although details have yet to be revealed, Sojaboy may appear once again on the hit TLC reality TV series alongside an American woman. Regardless, this memorable cast member gives off major player vibes.
Sources: Sojaboy/YouTube, Sojaboy/Instagram, Sojaboy/TikTok, In Touch Weekly, 90daythemelanatedway/Instagram